Why I Will Never Travel Without Adequate Travel Insurance

My brother died alone in an ambulance in Jamaica after a nine-hour delay. I didn’t know how to help him. Now, I’ll never travel—or let anyone I love travel—without adequate insurance again. There are moments in life that divide everything into before and after. For me, that moment came with a phone call I’ll never…

Building the Perfect Kid—One Decade at a Time

After raising kids in the ’70s and watching four grandkids grow up in four different versions of crazy, I’ve figured out that every decade got something right. So what if we built a kid using only the best parts? Buckle up. The other day, I found myself watching my granddaughter scroll TikTok while doing homework,…

Donald Trump vs. The Deep State: The Delusion That Just Won’t Die

Ever since returning to office in 2024, Donald Trump has doubled down on his “deep state” delusion—firing civil servants, silencing opposition, and weaponizing paranoia. But the only thing more dangerous than the fantasy is the reality of what he’s doing with it.   Ever since Donald Trump clawed his way back into the White House…

Seven Steps Down and Right Back Into the Pain: A Fall I Didn’t See Coming (Literally)

I’ve spent years carefully avoiding another fall, but today, despite all my caution, I went down—again—right before our long-awaited trip. Same shoulder, same nightmare, different staircase. And all because of what I didn’t see coming. You’d think after everything I’ve been through, I’d have mastered the art of walking down a staircase without incident. And…

Let It Go… Or At Least Try Not to Lose Your Mind Over It

My mother swore by the Serenity Prayer, but like most of us, she was better at reciting it than living it. Turns out, learning to let go isn’t about serenity—it’s about surviving life without screaming into a pillow every night. Here’s what I’ve figured out, sarcasm and all. My mother used to throw the Serenity…

Excuse Me, Am I Invisible or Just Inconvenient?

Remember when customer service meant something? Me neither. After waiting 40 minutes with an appointment for a COVID shot, I started to wonder if I’d accidentally signed up for a social experiment in human patience. Spoiler: I failed. I’m not sure when it happened—somewhere between the fall of Blockbuster and the rise of self-checkouts—but somewhere…

Still Blaming Biden? Trump’s Excuses Don’t Match Reality

Donald Trump is back in the White House, but he’s still blaming Joe Biden for everything — from gas prices to crime to immigration. The problem? Much of what Trump criticizes was shaped by global events or began under his own watch. At some point, he’ll have to take responsibility — and the facts aren’t…

100 More Days of Trump: Lies, Cruelty, and Chaos

I’ve never supported Donald Trump, and after witnessing the first 100 days of his second term, my opposition has only intensified. His actions have been a relentless assault on truth, decency, and the very fabric of our democracy. This piece is my unfiltered, deeply personal account of the chaos and cruelty that define his presidency….

Suck It Up, Buttercup: My Real-Life Battle with Chronic Pain

For over 25 years, I’ve faced the harsh reality of living with chronic pain. From failed treatments and grueling withdrawals to small victories and hard-won wisdom, this is my raw, unfiltered journey—told honestly, with a dose of humor and a lot of grit. For more than 25 years, I’ve lived with chronic pain caused by…

Trump’s 100 Days of Wreckage, Whining, and Wannabe Dictatorship

Trump’s second term is a masterclass in wrecking America while grifting off its carcass. From mass deportations to global isolation, here’s why his first 100 days are a disaster we can’t afford to ignore.   If you thought Donald Trump’s first presidency was a train wreck, buckle up. His second term, barely 100 days old,…

My Forever Friends: A Rare and Beautiful Gift

Some friendships don’t just last — they define you. I’m forever grateful for the group of women who have shared my life’s journey from the beginning, weaving memories, love, and laughter through every season of life. There’s something almost magical about finding people who know you at every stage of life — and love you…

Fighting Back With Common Sense: Democratic Governors Step Up Where Trump Falls Short

Democratic governors are leading with courage, common sense, and real leadership — exactly what America needs to push back against Trump’s dangerous and self-serving executive orders. It’s almost unbelievable how fast Donald Trump’s second term has plunged into chaos — and we’re not even halfway through it yet. His executive orders are rolling out like…

Trump Claims Public Safety Depends on Perfect English for Truckers

In his latest publicity stunt disguised as policy, Trump targets immigrant truck drivers under the laughable excuse of “public safety.” Because clearly, the biggest threat on American highways is imperfect grammar — not crumbling infrastructure, impossible schedules, or corporate greed. Read why this executive order is nothing but another cruel, divisive distraction. Well, folks, here…

Justice in Handcuffs: President Trump’s Attack on Judge Hannah Dugan and the Constitution

When a judge is arrested for defending the law, and the President mocks due process as an inconvenience, the future of America is no longer in question — it’s in crisis. In what now passes for normal under President Trump’s second term, Milwaukee County Circuit Judge Hannah Dugan was arrested — not for misconduct, not…

Who’s the Real Jackass?

Sometimes moving into a new neighborhood brings fresh starts and new friendships. Other times… it brings you neighbors who threaten to hose down your imaginary cat and steal your kids’ soccer balls. In this funny true story, I share how a backyard feud turned into one of my favorite (and pettiest) victories — proving that…

My Mary Thing: A Lesson I’ve Carried All My Life

Sometimes the biggest lessons come wrapped in heartbreak. In this story, I share a memory that shaped the way I see love, loyalty, and expectations — and how it continues to touch my life decades later. I still remember the way sunlight streamed through the kitchen window as I sat flipping through that  bridal magazine,…

If I Knew Then What I Know Now… I Would’ve Picked Vegetables Over French Fries (Sometimes)

Looking back, there’s a lot I wish I could go back and tell my younger self — like maybe stop worrying about perfect makeup and start worrying about what actually matters. Life doesn’t come with a manual, but it sure teaches you lessons if you stick around long enough.   There’s a reason every older…

Finding My Way: From Lost to Loved

My For most of my life, I felt like I was living without a map while everyone else had a clear path. I spent years trying to meet everyone else’s expectations, never feeling like I measured up. It took heartbreak, healing, and the right person walking into my life for me to finally realize: I…