A Mother’s Day reflection about love, expectations, distance, regret, and the painful realization that motherhood changes as children grow older and build lives of their own. Mother’s Day always makes me reflective. This morning I woke up thinking about my mother and the complicated relationship we had. I never doubted that she loved me, but…
After raising kids in the ’70s and watching four grandkids grow up in four different versions of crazy, I’ve figured out that every decade got something right. So what if we built a kid using only the best parts? Buckle up. The other day, I found myself watching my granddaughter scroll TikTok while doing homework,…
A humorous and heartfelt reflection on the elusive “worry switch” in parenting. From the early days of child-rearing to watching grown children navigate their own lives, this piece explores the challenges of letting go and the enduring nature of parental concern. I used to tell my kids, “If I had a worry switch,…
