Excuse Me, Am I Invisible or Just Inconvenient?

Remember when customer service meant something? Me neither. After waiting 40 minutes with an appointment for a COVID shot, I started to wonder if I’d accidentally signed up for a social experiment in human patience. Spoiler: I failed. I’m not sure when it happened—somewhere between the fall of Blockbuster and the rise of self-checkouts—but somewhere…

So There I Was… Channeling My Mother Like I Was Possessed

I spent my youth promising I’d never be like her. And then, somewhere between raising boys and spoiling grandkids, her voice came out of my mouth. Except now? I’ve doubled down and taken it to a whole new level. I can still see myself in the kitchen of our house in Orfordville in 1969 —…

No One’s Coming to Save You — And That’s When You Save Yourself

For over 20 years, I’ve battled health issues that touched every part of my life. I’ve stayed silent, fought hard, and learned what it means to rise even when no one’s clapping. This isn’t a sob story—it’s a reminder that strength comes from within, and self-pity isn’t a home you should live in. I haven’t…

Is the World Getting Better or Worse Overall?

Is the world falling apart or quietly getting better? Maybe it’s both. In this piece, I explore how humanity is moving forward and stumbling at the same time — and why choosing where we focus our energy still matters Is the world getting better or worse? Depends on who you ask — and honestly, depends…

Why I’ve Never Been Good at Taking Criticism

I’ll just say it straight: I don’t like criticism. I never have. And it doesn’t really matter what kind it is — harsh, helpful, well-meaning, or even dressed up as “constructive” — it still hits me like a punch to the gut. I take it personally every single time, no matter how hard I try…

Maybe You’ve Got Me Wrong—But Here’s Who I Really Am

People might think I talk too much, move too fast, or care too deeply—but there’s a reason behind all of it. I’ve lived through loss, pain, and hard lessons, and I’m still here, still learning, still trying. This is me—uncensored, a little impulsive, and always full of heart. I’m going to be real with you—because…