Why I’m Still Speaking Out About Duane Boise

Nine years ago, my brother died in Jamaica waiting for a medevac that never came. The man responsible—Duane Boise—lied, stole, and disappeared behind a wall of fake credentials and forged signatures. Today, he’s running a new scam under the name MMJ International Holdings. I won’t stay silent while he keeps preying on families like mine….

Fat. Funny. And Finally Feeling Hopeful.

  After a lifetime of seatbelt struggles, salad shaming, and chairs that bite back, I’m finally seeing a glimmer of hope—50 pounds down on Ozempic and counting. I’m still fat, still funny, but now… cautiously optimistic. Come for the laughs, stay for the real talk.

My Mary Thing: A Lesson I’ve Carried All My Life

Sometimes the biggest lessons come wrapped in heartbreak. In this story, I share a memory that shaped the way I see love, loyalty, and expectations — and how it continues to touch my life decades later. I still remember the way sunlight streamed through the kitchen window as I sat flipping through that  bridal magazine,…

If I Knew Then What I Know Now… I Would’ve Picked Vegetables Over French Fries (Sometimes)

Looking back, there’s a lot I wish I could go back and tell my younger self — like maybe stop worrying about perfect makeup and start worrying about what actually matters. Life doesn’t come with a manual, but it sure teaches you lessons if you stick around long enough.   There’s a reason every older…

Finding My Way: From Lost to Loved

My For most of my life, I felt like I was living without a map while everyone else had a clear path. I spent years trying to meet everyone else’s expectations, never feeling like I measured up. It took heartbreak, healing, and the right person walking into my life for me to finally realize: I…

Bedbugs

I wrote Bedbugs in 2015 after fighting my way back from nearly three years stuck in bed from overmedication. It was one of the first real days I felt alive again — babysitting my granddaughters, feeling hope, and realizing how much life I still had left to live. This story will always be special to…

Another Day, Another Story: Why I Refuse to Let My Health Define Me

Living with chronic illness isn’t easy, but it’s not the end of the story either. In this heartfelt post, I share my personal journey through decades of health battles, the lessons I’ve learned about gratitude and resilience, and why I refuse to let my medical struggles define me. Life is too precious to waste on…

When Trust Gets Taken: Reflections on Being Honest in a World Full of Scammers

I’m not naïve. I’m not gullible. But I do believe in giving people the benefit of the doubt—and lately, that trust has cost me dearly. These are the painful lessons I’ve learned in a world full of deception. I’ve always considered myself a practical person. I don’t fall for get-rich-quick schemes or chain letters. I…